TEXTO 1

Em tempos de fórmulas, roteiros e dicas demais sobre como conquistar alguém, vou na direção contrária e evito qualquer coisa que pregue joguinhos, métodos baseados em frieza e desinteresse, chá de sumiço e essa baboseira toda.

Sou dos que simplificam tudo, mesmo as relações humanas sendo tão complexas.

Digo com todas as letras o que sinto.

Demonstro com todas as atitudes necessárias.

Mostro, comprovo, deixo completamente entendido.

Vai soar emocionado demais? Não ligo.

Vai parecer que sou fraco e vão tentar se aproveitar do que sinto?

Amadureci o bastante para saber identificar sinais e me proteger.

Vão fugir de mim, porque, hoje em dia, muita gente não sabe lidar com essa coragem? Livramento meu.

Ou vivo algo bacana, ou me poupo de viver algo que não vai me trazer o que mereço.

Ser fiel àquilo que sou é sempre um excelente jeito de resolver as coisas. Recomendo.

Fernandes, Victor. Pra você que é emocionado. São Paulo: Planeta do Brasil, 2024. 

TEXTO 1

Em tempos de fórmulas, roteiros e dicas demais sobre como conquistar alguém, vou na direção contrária e evito qualquer coisa que pregue joguinhos, métodos baseados em frieza e desinteresse, chá de sumiço e essa baboseira toda.

Sou dos que simplificam tudo, mesmo as relações humanas sendo tão complexas.

Digo com todas as letras o que sinto.

Demonstro com todas as atitudes necessárias.

Mostro, comprovo, deixo completamente entendido.

Vai soar emocionado demais? Não ligo.

Vai parecer que sou fraco e vão tentar se aproveitar do que sinto?

Amadureci o bastante para saber identificar sinais e me proteger.

Vão fugir de mim, porque, hoje em dia, muita gente não sabe lidar com essa coragem? Livramento meu.

Ou vivo algo bacana, ou me poupo de viver algo que não vai me trazer o que mereço.

Ser fiel àquilo que sou é sempre um excelente jeito de resolver as coisas. Recomendo.

Fernandes, Victor. Pra você que é emocionado. São Paulo: Planeta do Brasil, 2024. 

TEXTO 1

Em tempos de fórmulas, roteiros e dicas demais sobre como conquistar alguém, vou na direção contrária e evito qualquer coisa que pregue joguinhos, métodos baseados em frieza e desinteresse, chá de sumiço e essa baboseira toda.

Sou dos que simplificam tudo, mesmo as relações humanas sendo tão complexas.

Digo com todas as letras o que sinto.

Demonstro com todas as atitudes necessárias.

Mostro, comprovo, deixo completamente entendido.

Vai soar emocionado demais? Não ligo.

Vai parecer que sou fraco e vão tentar se aproveitar do que sinto?

Amadureci o bastante para saber identificar sinais e me proteger.

Vão fugir de mim, porque, hoje em dia, muita gente não sabe lidar com essa coragem? Livramento meu.

Ou vivo algo bacana, ou me poupo de viver algo que não vai me trazer o que mereço.

Ser fiel àquilo que sou é sempre um excelente jeito de resolver as coisas. Recomendo.

Fernandes, Victor. Pra você que é emocionado. São Paulo: Planeta do Brasil, 2024. 

TEXTO 1

Em tempos de fórmulas, roteiros e dicas demais sobre como conquistar alguém, vou na direção contrária e evito qualquer coisa que pregue joguinhos, métodos baseados em frieza e desinteresse, chá de sumiço e essa baboseira toda.

Sou dos que simplificam tudo, mesmo as relações humanas sendo tão complexas.

Digo com todas as letras o que sinto.

Demonstro com todas as atitudes necessárias.

Mostro, comprovo, deixo completamente entendido.

Vai soar emocionado demais? Não ligo.

Vai parecer que sou fraco e vão tentar se aproveitar do que sinto?

Amadureci o bastante para saber identificar sinais e me proteger.

Vão fugir de mim, porque, hoje em dia, muita gente não sabe lidar com essa coragem? Livramento meu.

Ou vivo algo bacana, ou me poupo de viver algo que não vai me trazer o que mereço.

Ser fiel àquilo que sou é sempre um excelente jeito de resolver as coisas. Recomendo.

Fernandes, Victor. Pra você que é emocionado. São Paulo: Planeta do Brasil, 2024. 

To answer question, read the text below.

The Language of Performance

    Well, the word “performative” is generally meant as an insult. It’s meant to trivialize and indicate that someone is play-acting or “faking it.” It suggests that someone is only doing something to be seen doing it, and not because it represents a sincere interest or enjoyment.

    This is one of those situations in which metaphors are overextended, and language distorts rather than describes natural human behavior. It is normal for our species for men and women to “perform” acts to impress both our own sex and the opposite sex. Males and females have different sex “roles,” and we “perform” acts to satisfy those roles.

    The language seems to “portray” us as “actors performing roles” and implies that we are all essentially “lying” or “faking.” This is the kind of wordcel wordtrap that lends itself to Marxist gender theory ideology and postmodernist thinking.

    “Nothing is real, everything is fake. Everything is a performance.”

    That’s a frame, but it isn’t the whole picture.

    Men are primates. We imitate each other. Monkey see, monkey do. And yes, we do things to try to impress each other. You can frame that in a way that seems trivial or superficial, but it is also foundational to human nature and social hierarchy.

    Fonte: https//mrjackdonovan.substack.com/p/on-performative-males

To answer question, read the text below.

The Language of Performance

    Well, the word “performative” is generally meant as an insult. It’s meant to trivialize and indicate that someone is play-acting or “faking it.” It suggests that someone is only doing something to be seen doing it, and not because it represents a sincere interest or enjoyment.

    This is one of those situations in which metaphors are overextended, and language distorts rather than describes natural human behavior. It is normal for our species for men and women to “perform” acts to impress both our own sex and the opposite sex. Males and females have different sex “roles,” and we “perform” acts to satisfy those roles.

    The language seems to “portray” us as “actors performing roles” and implies that we are all essentially “lying” or “faking.” This is the kind of wordcel wordtrap that lends itself to Marxist gender theory ideology and postmodernist thinking.

    “Nothing is real, everything is fake. Everything is a performance.”

    That’s a frame, but it isn’t the whole picture.

    Men are primates. We imitate each other. Monkey see, monkey do. And yes, we do things to try to impress each other. You can frame that in a way that seems trivial or superficial, but it is also foundational to human nature and social hierarchy.

    Fonte: https//mrjackdonovan.substack.com/p/on-performative-males

To answer question, read the text below.

The Language of Performance

    Well, the word “performative” is generally meant as an insult. It’s meant to trivialize and indicate that someone is play-acting or “faking it.” It suggests that someone is only doing something to be seen doing it, and not because it represents a sincere interest or enjoyment.

    This is one of those situations in which metaphors are overextended, and language distorts rather than describes natural human behavior. It is normal for our species for men and women to “perform” acts to impress both our own sex and the opposite sex. Males and females have different sex “roles,” and we “perform” acts to satisfy those roles.

    The language seems to “portray” us as “actors performing roles” and implies that we are all essentially “lying” or “faking.” This is the kind of wordcel wordtrap that lends itself to Marxist gender theory ideology and postmodernist thinking.

    “Nothing is real, everything is fake. Everything is a performance.”

    That’s a frame, but it isn’t the whole picture.

    Men are primates. We imitate each other. Monkey see, monkey do. And yes, we do things to try to impress each other. You can frame that in a way that seems trivial or superficial, but it is also foundational to human nature and social hierarchy.

    Fonte: https//mrjackdonovan.substack.com/p/on-performative-males

To answer question, read the text below.

The Language of Performance

    Well, the word “performative” is generally meant as an insult. It’s meant to trivialize and indicate that someone is play-acting or “faking it.” It suggests that someone is only doing something to be seen doing it, and not because it represents a sincere interest or enjoyment.

    This is one of those situations in which metaphors are overextended, and language distorts rather than describes natural human behavior. It is normal for our species for men and women to “perform” acts to impress both our own sex and the opposite sex. Males and females have different sex “roles,” and we “perform” acts to satisfy those roles.

    The language seems to “portray” us as “actors performing roles” and implies that we are all essentially “lying” or “faking.” This is the kind of wordcel wordtrap that lends itself to Marxist gender theory ideology and postmodernist thinking.

    “Nothing is real, everything is fake. Everything is a performance.”

    That’s a frame, but it isn’t the whole picture.

    Men are primates. We imitate each other. Monkey see, monkey do. And yes, we do things to try to impress each other. You can frame that in a way that seems trivial or superficial, but it is also foundational to human nature and social hierarchy.

    Fonte: https//mrjackdonovan.substack.com/p/on-performative-males

To answer question, read the text below.

The Language of Performance

    Well, the word “performative” is generally meant as an insult. It’s meant to trivialize and indicate that someone is play-acting or “faking it.” It suggests that someone is only doing something to be seen doing it, and not because it represents a sincere interest or enjoyment.

    This is one of those situations in which metaphors are overextended, and language distorts rather than describes natural human behavior. It is normal for our species for men and women to “perform” acts to impress both our own sex and the opposite sex. Males and females have different sex “roles,” and we “perform” acts to satisfy those roles.

    The language seems to “portray” us as “actors performing roles” and implies that we are all essentially “lying” or “faking.” This is the kind of wordcel wordtrap that lends itself to Marxist gender theory ideology and postmodernist thinking.

    “Nothing is real, everything is fake. Everything is a performance.”

    That’s a frame, but it isn’t the whole picture.

    Men are primates. We imitate each other. Monkey see, monkey do. And yes, we do things to try to impress each other. You can frame that in a way that seems trivial or superficial, but it is also foundational to human nature and social hierarchy.

    Fonte: https//mrjackdonovan.substack.com/p/on-performative-males

To answer question, read the text below.

The Language of Performance

    Well, the word “performative” is generally meant as an insult. It’s meant to trivialize and indicate that someone is play-acting or “faking it.” It suggests that someone is only doing something to be seen doing it, and not because it represents a sincere interest or enjoyment.

    This is one of those situations in which metaphors are overextended, and language distorts rather than describes natural human behavior. It is normal for our species for men and women to “perform” acts to impress both our own sex and the opposite sex. Males and females have different sex “roles,” and we “perform” acts to satisfy those roles.

    The language seems to “portray” us as “actors performing roles” and implies that we are all essentially “lying” or “faking.” This is the kind of wordcel wordtrap that lends itself to Marxist gender theory ideology and postmodernist thinking.

    “Nothing is real, everything is fake. Everything is a performance.”

    That’s a frame, but it isn’t the whole picture.

    Men are primates. We imitate each other. Monkey see, monkey do. And yes, we do things to try to impress each other. You can frame that in a way that seems trivial or superficial, but it is also foundational to human nature and social hierarchy.

    Fonte: https//mrjackdonovan.substack.com/p/on-performative-males

To answer question, read the text below.

The Language of Performance

    Well, the word “performative” is generally meant as an insult. It’s meant to trivialize and indicate that someone is play-acting or “faking it.” It suggests that someone is only doing something to be seen doing it, and not because it represents a sincere interest or enjoyment.

    This is one of those situations in which metaphors are overextended, and language distorts rather than describes natural human behavior. It is normal for our species for men and women to “perform” acts to impress both our own sex and the opposite sex. Males and females have different sex “roles,” and we “perform” acts to satisfy those roles.

    The language seems to “portray” us as “actors performing roles” and implies that we are all essentially “lying” or “faking.” This is the kind of wordcel wordtrap that lends itself to Marxist gender theory ideology and postmodernist thinking.

    “Nothing is real, everything is fake. Everything is a performance.”

    That’s a frame, but it isn’t the whole picture.

    Men are primates. We imitate each other. Monkey see, monkey do. And yes, we do things to try to impress each other. You can frame that in a way that seems trivial or superficial, but it is also foundational to human nature and social hierarchy.

    Fonte: https//mrjackdonovan.substack.com/p/on-performative-males

To answer question, read the text below.

The Language of Performance

    Well, the word “performative” is generally meant as an insult. It’s meant to trivialize and indicate that someone is play-acting or “faking it.” It suggests that someone is only doing something to be seen doing it, and not because it represents a sincere interest or enjoyment.

    This is one of those situations in which metaphors are overextended, and language distorts rather than describes natural human behavior. It is normal for our species for men and women to “perform” acts to impress both our own sex and the opposite sex. Males and females have different sex “roles,” and we “perform” acts to satisfy those roles.

    The language seems to “portray” us as “actors performing roles” and implies that we are all essentially “lying” or “faking.” This is the kind of wordcel wordtrap that lends itself to Marxist gender theory ideology and postmodernist thinking.

    “Nothing is real, everything is fake. Everything is a performance.”

    That’s a frame, but it isn’t the whole picture.

    Men are primates. We imitate each other. Monkey see, monkey do. And yes, we do things to try to impress each other. You can frame that in a way that seems trivial or superficial, but it is also foundational to human nature and social hierarchy.

    Fonte: https//mrjackdonovan.substack.com/p/on-performative-males

To answer question, read the text below.

The Language of Performance

    Well, the word “performative” is generally meant as an insult. It’s meant to trivialize and indicate that someone is play-acting or “faking it.” It suggests that someone is only doing something to be seen doing it, and not because it represents a sincere interest or enjoyment.

    This is one of those situations in which metaphors are overextended, and language distorts rather than describes natural human behavior. It is normal for our species for men and women to “perform” acts to impress both our own sex and the opposite sex. Males and females have different sex “roles,” and we “perform” acts to satisfy those roles.

    The language seems to “portray” us as “actors performing roles” and implies that we are all essentially “lying” or “faking.” This is the kind of wordcel wordtrap that lends itself to Marxist gender theory ideology and postmodernist thinking.

    “Nothing is real, everything is fake. Everything is a performance.”

    That’s a frame, but it isn’t the whole picture.

    Men are primates. We imitate each other. Monkey see, monkey do. And yes, we do things to try to impress each other. You can frame that in a way that seems trivial or superficial, but it is also foundational to human nature and social hierarchy.

    Fonte: https//mrjackdonovan.substack.com/p/on-performative-males

TEXTO PARA A QUESTÃO .

"Garota, o verão terminou e é hora de pensar, pra valer, em 2026"  

   Mandei um áudio para uma amiga que andava desolé por causa de um ficante e acabei me estendendo sobre outras coisas, eu parecia uma coach. Durou 8 minutos. Juro. Ela não respondeu. Perdi a amiga, pensei, até que ontem ela surgiu tão alvoroçada pelas minhas palavras que vou aproveitar que é Dia da Mulher e reproduzir o áudio que enviei a ela, com a devida permissão da destinatária (e numa versão editada, prometo).

   “Garota, o verão terminou e é hora de pensar, pra valer, em 2026. Antes, vamos falar da fantasia que você criou com esse homem sem atrativos. A promessa não se cumpriu, nada prosperou, então chega de desperdício e foca no que ainda não aconteceu, mas vai. Abre teus chacras para a entrada de pessoas que possam gerar um encontro verdadeiro, basta de alimentar o papel de ‘amiguinha’, chega de ser tão educada, de responder mensagens banais. Desaparece, te dedica aos acasos com potencial para virarem acontecimentos. 

   Sei que você não gosta de falar de dinheiro, mas admita: você é sovina. Trate de gastar um pouco. Pare de economizar e vá fazer uma viagem, sua conta não vai zerar e ninguém vai morrer com sua ausência. 

   A passagem do tempo tem que ser enfrentada sem desespero. Daqui a 10 anos você vai sentir saudades de hoje, então mantenha os treinos na academia e a mente ativada, e mesmo que você já não se considere a beldade de antes (maldita autocrítica), ainda assim confie: atrações são despertadas mais pela nossa energia do que pela textura da pele. Cuide da saúde, desligue da aparência. O brilho do seu olhar dá conta. 

   Aquele cara que se apaixonou perdidamente por você alguns anos atrás, lembra dele? É, aquele. Mesmo tendo sido um caso rápido, cheio de senões, nutriu tua alma, havia ali sentimento de verdade, eterno como raramente é. 

   Os mistérios do amor já se apresentaram na tua vida. Você já teve amores longos, curtos, imperfeitos, genuínos, como são todas as relações, então agora o que precisa é fazer as pazes com a paz, chega de se apegar ao supérfluo. Invista na consistência. Respeite sua caminhada até aqui. 

   Os mistérios do amor já se apresentaram na tua vida. Você já teve amores longos, curtos, imperfeitos, genuínos, como são todas as relações, então agora o que precisa é fazer as pazes com a paz, chega de se apegar ao supérfluo. Invista na consistência. Respeite sua caminhada até aqui. 

   Sei que você já não enxerga redes de apoio, está frágil e insegura quanto à passagem do tempo, tudo é incerteza em frente. Mas é assim com todo mundo, ninguém contou? Volta para a terapia. Daí que é caro? Abra a mão, criatura. 

   Escuta esse áudio outra vez, agora na velocidade 1, não seja apressadinha. Mais paciência, menos ansiedade. Segue tua vida e, vá saber, talvez um _____ meio sujo estacione em frente à tua casa e alguém te convide para a aventura de ser ____ mulher que você ainda quer ser. Nova. Não na idade, mas no espírito, que não resseca nem enruga. Beijo!”

Autora: Martha Medeiros- GZH (adaptado).